Sabe o que é uma crença? É uma afirmação que você acredita tão profundamente que ela conduz as tuas escolhas. Toda sociedade tem crenças e mitos. Eles refletem valores cultuados pela sociedade em que vivemos – cidade, país, cultura – e nossa micro sociedade – família, amigos, trabalho. Eles são importantes para estruturar a nossa ética perante a vida, criam parâmetros do que consideramos certos e o que consideramos errado e ajudam a criar idéias sobre nosso futuro. Justamente por serem tão relevantes é sempre bom questioná-los periodicamente e verificar se eles refletem o que realmente acreditamos ou simplesmente são heranças sociais e familiares que carregamos sem saber.
Vamos falar de uma crença feminina que ainda insiste em continuar: a que mulher é sempre – ou quase sempre – uma ameaça para outra mulher. A construção da ideia de desunião feminina pode ter sido criada como ferramenta para enfraquecer a força feminina. Historicamente – embora isso ainda aconteça em muitas sociedades – num ambiente machista–opressor ter um homem, ou ser a preferida/oficial de um, podia trazer algum ar fresco a uma vida sem luz. Nesse contexto a luta feminina – nem sempre leal – por ter um homem podia ser uma situação de sobrevivência. Com o passar dos séculos, fomos carregando a ideia que mulher compete com mulher.
Obviamente aqui não me refiro às mulheres competitivas que possuem o prazer de ganhar de outra mulher para sentirem que valem mais – e é sempre bom lembrar que isso também acontece entre os homens! Nem a aquelas que consideram que uma aventura fora do relacionamento não tem mal nenhum. Meu ponto são mulheres que querem viver seu grande amor e construir uma vida romântica-companheira junto a um homem só e desejam reciprocidade.
As mulheres quando sofrem assédio, mesmo que somente visual, de homens com quem convivem são penalizadas com a crença que mencionei; quem vocês consideram que é vista como a responsável por aquele homem se mostrar interessado, mesmo que na fantasia dele? Você acertou, nós mulheres consideramos que a responsabilidade é da mulher.
Porque responsabilizamos as mulheres e desculpamos os homens? Porque mantemos viva a crença que a mulher é a responsável por todo o mal que acontece na humanidade? Se pensarmos bem, mesmo que a mulher esteja paquerando nosso companheiro, cabe a ele a responsabilidade de se posicionar, assim como nós mulheres o fazemos perante paqueras impertinentes, não é mesmo? Mas se você é do grupo que pensa que o homem é fraco por natureza – se essa crença te acompanha – talvez você tenha que refletir porque você alimenta essa crença tão antiga e não se abre para novos tipos de relacionamentos em que homens fortes de caráter estão cada vez mais respeitando suas companheiras como elas esperam.
É claro que a gente escolhe a matriz de crenças que carregamos para a vida. Muitas das mulheres que ouvi que aceitam as traições dos companheiros é porque creem que as mulheres tentam roubá-los delas e/ou porque consideram os homens são fracos; sentem-se mais vitoriosas – e poderosas – quando, mesmo com esses deslizes masculinos, eles continuam com elas. Por isso vale pena pensar, qual é tua crença de vitória e de força feminina: manter um homem apesar de todas as ameaças? Ou ter ao teu lado um companheiro forte que te seja leal? O que te faz sentir mais mulher.
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